Creative Adventures – Creative Life Midwife

You Are Your Own Magic Wand

October 23, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

One of my never used but often thought of ideas for either an article or essay or video or book is “You are your magic wand.” The idea has been floating through my mind for close to twenty years now. Waiting.

I have even used a magic wand in my videos. One of my favorite selfies is me with my magic wand (actually a magic wand pen) in my mouth with a frustrated expression of my face, even though I am wearing a tiara and have beautifully curled hair.

“I am my own magic wand.”

How can I feel frustrated when I am wearing a tiara and I have a magic wand pen ready to scribe for me?

Must be I gave more power to the frown than my blond curls or my sparkly tiara.

John Muir whispers in my ear, reminding me, (when you choose to not create, your gifts and talents are ) “Hidden in the glorious wildness like unmined gold.”

I remember Emily Dickinson writing about the “slant of light” some call repressive and yet when I see images like this one and remember sitting with the sun as she says her daily hello and goodbye, I feel this ordinary, everyday magic holding me close and I know no matter how much I try to insist I am frustrated….when I stop and look and feel and allow the love in….

The slant of light combined with my words makes the distance between me and the glorious wildness each and every day.

My writing is bigger and grander and more silent and hugely gloriously sacred songs ringing from deep inside me in thunderous claps that somehow others aren’t able to see in the same way I see them.

To some people, this sort of writing won’t make any sense or may even sound like nonsense.

In the past, I might have worried I was doing something wrong because people didn’t understand me or some people even voiced their opinions that I was weird (in a bad way) and I didn’t belong in the more prestigious circles or groups or even neighborhoods or clubs.

Then I realized something significant.

The people who think that way are not my people.\

I let them go back into their cubby holes and their scowling angry temples lined with gold and carefully coiffed front lawns masking the land mines of thought filled with oppressive ugliness they choose to label reality.

I settle back into the nurturing space of awareness and open to the page where John Muir spoke so eloquently to me when he said:

Writing Prompt for today: What gifts and talents am I hiding?

When I express my gifts and talents I feel….

What keeps me from expressing my gifts and talents may be….

Set your timer for five minutes at at time and write at least once to each of these prompts. They will help you gain momentum with your magic wand.

Remember, You are Your Own Magic Wand.

Julie Jordan Scott (the one who wrote this blog post) says: This is what I crave for you: soulful creativity, aliveness in your passionate productivity, and a deeper sense of knowing how you belong in the world so that together we will be able to create a context for the rest of your life via your next book or your next workshop or simply your next day, week, month or year.

The people who named me “Creative Life Midwife” found words and paint and laughter and flexed their courage muscles on the way to a deeper satisfaction in their daily lives via new blogs, books, webinars and friendships – just to name a few. Contact me now for your complimentary Transformational coaching conversation. Click here to complete the request form now.

How to Use “The Monster” Storytelling Archetype to Market Your Product or Service

October 20, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

“The Monster” archetype is summarized as those times when “bad” or uncontrollable energy or happenstance appears which you (or in marketing, your client or customer or character in your ad campaign) eventually rise above, victoriously.

This is an archetype easily used by healing artists, storytellers – anyone who provides a product or service that makes someone feel better about some experience or circumstance.

In these cases I consider my cancer journey, my client’s experience of grief, perhaps the movie “Jaws” or I think about Julie Andrews losing her ability to sing.

I wrote for two consecutive 5 minute brain dumps today writing to the prompt of “monsters” which became “These are the topics I have never wanted to talk about.”

What you see next is simply stream of consciousness. No editing or foresight. In using this approach, I was able to tune into my own process AND glean insights my clients/customers/students may relate to as well.

Follow along with me now as I wrote to this prompt:

It hurts too much to open the door, which is why we keep the door shut and refuse to open it.

It is why the word “cancer” is whispered and we turn our heads from the mirror when we see our scars or an obstruction that blocks us from seeing what we would rather see. Even with that, we can’t stop watching the tragedy – the airplanes flying into the twin towers – is on replay in our mind’s eye, the most horrific images from wartime (I am seeing a few in my mind as I write) the heart stopping stories I look forward to watching each week on Law and Order, SVU.

Yesterday I spoke on the phone to a personification of “The Monsters” in my life. A person whose presence in my life initiated an episode of abandonment in my life I rarely address.

It was interesting because for the first time since that episode, I wasn’t overly troubled by the conversation. I still haven’t come to a conclusion about where I will take the conversation or what I will do with it, but it seems that particular chapter has lost some of its power as distance and time often does.

(It actually stirs me to think of lines of poetry in my head, oddly or not.)
The monster archetype and rising above it is a story of healing, a story of proclaiming victory – a definitive overcoming of the monster, not the surprise “this isn’t really over” almost to the ending scenario but the true ending.

I might have proclaimed victory from melanoma, but the scar on my face troubled me a lot in the year afterwards so much so, I had a second surgery to make it not so pronounced.

My face still hurts in very cool temperatures and I notice that as I age, it takes on different nuances.

I suppose overcoming that monster is more like making peace with its presence on my face. I actually think my scar is cool much of the time.
People look at it in a sort of awe when they notice it is shaped like a heart. Other times they make up stories that I was attacked by a knife wielding… lover of love to leave a heart shape? I don’t know what they think when they think that but when I say it came thanks to melanoma people look relieved that I wasn’t attacked by a fellow human, instead I was attacked by a disease.

I stop typing momentarily. I think about the real monsters in my life, the ones that stay in the closet and remain untalkaboutable: the fear of being abandoned and alone. (My stress cough showed up as I typed that.)
The fear of my children having unsurmountable problems.
The fear of being disliked by people I treasure the most.

Some of these fears have already been realized and I have survived.

I am literally laughing and coughing, coughing and laughing because as I continue writing and continue to “speak my truth” through writing it on the page in spite of the coughing that attempts to choke me into silence, I am beating the monster one slug at a time.

#End Writing –

And to layer this over my Core Message: Express Yourself Freely, On Purpose to Leave the World Better than How You Found It….

The fact I wrote and laughed as I coughed and my stress cough has been a huge barrier for expression… I believe I am onto a victory of one of my biggest battles.

THAT FEELS PRICELESS!

Stand by to see how this is morphed into a marketing message and marketing story, to be used and told repeatedly.

Story Archetypes + One Page Marketing Plan = Fun & Successful Creative Business

October 16, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

Now comes a really fun part – combining storytelling archetypes with our marketing plan. The very first step is to determine how to approach Story Telling Archetypes from a marketing perspective:

Think about the problem your business solves for your people (tribe, community, neighborhood, end user, students, ideal clients, perfect reader, etc.)
Consider which of these stories sounds closest to your people who are attracted to use your product or service and show up without you expending any effort beyond doing what you do naturally because you love it.

We will use story archetypes in combination with our One Page Marketing Plan for Creative Businesses to Bring Your Business Success to life.

The 9 Story Archetypes we will focus upon are:

Overcoming the Monster – “Bad” uncontrollable energy or happenstance which you rise above. This is an archetype easily used by healing artists, “Jaws”. I think about my cancer journey.
Rags to Riches –” Woo hoo I made it big and made a lot of money!” Prosperity Coaches, Job Coaches, Artists who had a big show and got lots of bookings…
The Quest – Long, arduous twisty turning road to success. I can related to this one in my personal life. Lifetime movies with multiple “issues” to overcome.
Voyage and Return – Alice in Wonderland is a classical fiction journey. For you and your ideal client it may be a metaphorical or daily journey.
Comedy – Look to Shakespeare (tough to do it well, though not impossible) Come to think of it, my ridiculous Korn Music Video story could be a comedy on a “Just do it” theme.
Tragedy – Easily emotional tug and be careful not to overdue (Ask yourself, Does this fit a quest instead?)
Rebirth – Coming back from a space of death, coma, etc. Rising above challenge or not great experience
Mystery – the Unknown/discovering. Many spiritual stories fit in this category.
Rebellion Against “The One” ß big business, the boss, the government, authority: great for entrepreneurs who leave corporate America.

Julie Jordan Scott says: This is what I crave for you: soulful creativity, aliveness in your passionate productivity, and a deeper sense of knowing how you belong in the world so that together we will be able to create a context for the rest of your life via your next book or your next workshop or simply your next day, week, month or year.

Stream of Consciousness Sunday – Throwing Random Thoughts on the Page

October 15, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

We will store this in the file drawer marked “What people don’t talk about much” – perhaps this is a series that is calling to be written.

Sometimes self-care, for me, is dogged productivity. Diving my nose into a project intensely and slogging through it feels better than almost anything I can imagine. It creates a deeper, more resonant satisfaction than almost any of the traditional “self-care” suggestions offered by many of my beloved friends.
I am ashamed of admitting this, I almost don’t want to say it for fear of being cast out of any remotely inner circle I might be a part of because if 2018 had a theme other than the one I set it is “We don’t want you” and “You don’t belong here.”
In actuality, my theme for 2018 was/is freedom and allowing myself to be cast out is actually freeing. I just need to move further along the grief path so I don’t ache with each interaction with people I used to call my friends.
There are people waiting to love you, and me, and those people who have hurt you and me. There are people waiting to be loved, fully, and who would be so thrilled to be invited for a cup of coffee or a walk or a conversation deeper than what is currently the latest celebrity sensation or the unfortunate state of (insert a myriad of subjects here,)
We are all bigger – our hearts and our visions for this world – than whatever bump in the road you are currently knocking up against.

This has been a stream-of-consciousness moment on a Sunday evening. I will get back to my trademark Sunday Loving Activities and offer to you this chance to think about whatever it is you aren’t talking about openly that might help you to feel better by giving it some attention.

Let’s Start: One Page Marketing Plan for Creatives

October 10, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife 2 Comments

Yes: we will be creating a one page marketing plan made up of 9 blocks. Each block will contain information about a specific aspect of marketing.

The image that resonates for me is “Quilt Squares” because I love storytelling quilts and yes, both quilting and storytelling are feminine art forms. Marketing for Creatives seems like a perfect fit with this as the framework.

This distinctive one page marketing plan will be called something like “Marketing Story Quilt “ because that feels so much better than “One Page Marketing Plan” which may be the eventual subtitle.

This is how the creative process works for me and perhaps for you, too.

We creatives don’t often go down a straight linear path with our business building and marketing. This is why it is so much easier for us to sit down with a piece of watercolor paper folded into nine rectangles then it is to copy a print out with 9 blocks of straight lines all in a row.

We would rather paint or write on water color paper or doodle on and perhaps eventually collage on and who knows what else we do before we come to some semblance of “oh, yeah – these ideas and this combination feels right”.

We don’t just make a list and call it done, we feel better when we make our marketing plan as unique as we are, like a big party or ritual or celebration.

Now that we recognize a marketing plan/storytelling quilt is a dynamic work-in-progress, stay with me as I tell you the 9 themes are will be sharing during the next two weeks, intermittently with the other content of this 31 Days of Marketing Success for Creatives:

Who are your people? (Target Market, Ideal Client, Reader, Tribe, Community

2. Core Marketing Message & Ongoing Marketing Conversations

3. What Methods Will I Use to Convey My Messages & Have Conversations?

4. How will I document my messages, conversations and key connections?

5. What will I do to further our relationship?

6. Methods for the exchange be made from “friendly” to “trusted customer/client”

7. What are my people’s most desired experience & how shall I deliver this?

8. Collaborative Partnership and Ongoing Relationship Development

9. Perfecting the “Who Do You Know Who?” Throughout the Process

If you missed our other blog posts, here is a listing for you. Before you leave, please take a moment to follow me on social media (links are above) and take advantage of the free resources I’m offering as we go along on this particular adventure.

Day 1: Have Fun While Marketing?

Day 2: The Seeds of Your Marketing Success

Day 3: One Step at a Time

Day 4: The Most Important Question

Day 5: Beginner’s Mind

Day 8: Storytelling and Marketing

Have a Blast with Marketing Using Business Storytelling

October 9, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

Day 8 – For the next phase – throughout this week – we are going to focus on two parallel pieces of Marketing Your Creative Business (and having a great time doing it.)

How does a single sheet, one page marketing plan AND a simple format for telling your business/product story sound to you?

I get excited at the thoght!

Some of may feel uncomfortable when you hear me say “writing and visual storytelling” and others of you will feel a sense of anticipation because it sounds so cool!

Here is what I am going to do for you – for all of us. We are going to start with a big picture and then every day, deconstruct it and rebuild it alongside you.

Please trust me with this – because I believe so strongly in making this fun!

This is a simple, succinct, easy to master form of business storytelling.

I even created a simple worksheet for you to use as you create your simplest story. When you finish reading and watching the video, there is a link to download the free worksheet.

At first it may not look like a marketing strategy and if you bear with me for these next few moments and simultaneously open your mind I guarantee you will get it.

In its original form (though it was in Latin when Julius Caesar made it famous: I came. I saw. I conquered.

“Veni. Vidi. Vici.”

For a realtor, her simple story might be: “I list. I show. I sell.”

For a crochet artist: “I choose the funkiest yarn. I crochet with great love. After purchasing (and becoming a collector) will now have a smile every time you enter your (bedroom, den, office).”

For a writer: “I plan. I write. I complete with great joy!” (and for the end user or reader: “I open the book, I complete with great joy, my life is changed positively forever!”

For a hairstylist: “I mix and weave vibrant color combinations. You experience relaxing self-care. You leave my salon gorgeous and ready to celebrate yourself.”

See how simple this is?

Instantly you have a marketing story you may tell over and over and over with a variety of different sequences.

The template is the same.

In the beginning. There was then intentional action. Incredible results (emotional, feeling, measurable, experiential) follow naturally and with ease.

“Veni. Vidi. Vici.”

Keep your eye open for this in advertising, in movies, in sitcoms and videos, and in greeting cards.

Before. During Action/Process. Results!

Now: Sign up to receive your easy worksheet. You too will be telling your story and marketing your creative business with glee when you do!

Tomorrow we will introduce the One Page Marketing Plan – and will continue with storytelling practice on alternating days.

Julie JordanScott is a CreativeLife Coach and multi-creative known for her high energy, inspirational and simple to apply methods for writers and artists to bring more success into their small businesses and creative projects. To request your free transformational creative life coaching session, please make your request here now.

Let’s Have Fun with the Seed of Your Marketing Success

October 3, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

The foundation of your Creative Business Marketing contains the same seed that urged you to start your creative business.

For many of us, the starting point is passion. For me, the passion that stirred me was writing. I’ve ben revisiting one of the most influential books I have read for creatives, “Letters to a Young Poet” by Rainer Rilke. There is literally gold dust on every page.

When you read this quote, I request one slight shift – if you are not a writer, I urge you to exchange the word “write” with whatever you create in your business. The original looks like this “Search for the reason that bids you to write; find out whether it is spreading out its roots in the deepest places of your heart.” Now for you it may read like this: “Search for the reason that bids you to sew…” or “Search for the reason that bids you to sing…” or “Search for the reason that bids you to give talks to elementary school groups…”

Herein lies your personal business gold: not that you “have to” write a book to as a business card; not that you “must” have those branding colors just right to make money on Instagram; not that “without working 20 hours a day on my crochet projects I won’t be a success”.

I’m not talking about that and I am NOT talking about what some people call “Your Why”.

I’m asking you to look deeper.

I’m asking you to go beyond what you’ve done in the past and seek the call of your heart to this business – your purpose, your mission, your vision – and use that purpose to set your marketing aim.

Your aim, sometimes called a goal, is setting your “abundance in motion.”

Your purpose – with your passion as the fuel – sets your abundance in motion for your sustainable, successful creative business.

So – with that in mind – your task today is to remember back when you had this inkling of an idea. You may start the process with free flow writing and journaling your responses to these questions. Take only up to five minutes at first to get your process moving.

Who did you want to reach with your message when you first started your business?

What was it that excited you specifically about your message and the people you would reach?

What story(ies) do you have about your business that move your emotions when you tell them?

So this is our starting point: Your passion stirs your purpose. Noticing when and how and what stirs your passion will take you one step closer to the overall aim of your work and from there, your most effective marketing will be borne.

Julie JordanScott is a Creative Life Coach who loves challenging herself and those she works with to continually seek new methods of inspiration, to allow oneself to be delighted and surprised and to wake up, nurture, encourage and grow your inner artist, genius, explorer and best self daily.

Have Fun While Marketing?

October 1, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife 3 Comments

We creative business owners and solopreneurs have the dream life, right?

We’re creating a product or service that delights us and inspires others and we have the joy of bringing our products and services to market and we also – have the joy of marketing said product or service in order to make our efforts sustain us financially, emotionally and… in whatever way our vision carries us.

Many of us, myself included, get so excited in the making, we forget the significance of the marketing in bringing us the freedom we seek as creative entrepreneurs.

Our aim for this series is to combine the fun of making – creating visual or healing art and more – with financial abundance through making marketing another aspect of our creativity in a way that excites, delights and expands our hearts almost as much as our crafting, writing, sculpting, performing or… fill in your blank here… does.

I will come to you for the next 30 days with a short video and a blog post with suggestions, techniques, questions and exercises for you to playfully experiment with as you create your own marketing plans and campaigns. With the holidays right around the corner, doesn’t your bottom line – and your future success – deserve some passionate focus on your marketing efforts?

I’m so exciting to come alongside you as we see your business thrive – through creative marketing adventures to match your uniquely you making.

The list of each daily post will be below my PS – Visit as you may – lots of valuable information is here for you to insure your marketing success as a creative entrepreneur.

With Passionate Gratitude,

Julie JordanScott

Day 2: The Seeds of Your Marketing Success

Day 3: One Step at a Time

Day 4: The Most Important Question

Day 5: Beginner’s Mind

Day 8: Storytelling and Marketing

PS – Leave me a comment if you have ideas or thoughts or anything at all… and follow me on my social media accounts listed above, too, so we may connect in any of the places you are most likely to hang out! Let’s make your creative small business a rousing success in the weeks and months ahead. You deserve it!

Bridges: It is never too late to learn the glory of the ordinary.

September 13, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

One of my favorite bridges at Hart Park was my visual prompt of the day.

It is the ordinary architecture, the everyday bridges we drive over and over and over again we will, in the end, remember with the most love.

Most of our tiny snippets of memory don’t get remembered. Like that morning so many years ago when I was overheard saying “I don’t like going nowhere and not even knowing where nowhere is.”

This is what I grumbled many years ago as several friends and I walked on some random street in New York City, desperately seeking an egg cream to drink.

I was a cranky, early twenty-something then – me without the wisdom that was to come later born from pain and angst and loss.

I finished writing that sentence and I look up and over my laptop screen to see my neighbor of twenty five or so years is wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with the word “Grateful.” Earlier today I might have smirked until I started writing this brief essay.

If I were to die tomorrow and the newspaper reporter called her for comment, what would she say?

“Julie loves Tulip Magnolia trees. She was excited to see the Valentine’s present my husband Robert gave me and made a point to compliment me about it.”

The other memories we share are of different flavors: sour, scratchy, bitter, wistful and early on in our neighbor relationship, optimistic.

It is always the right time to build new bridges, to repair those that are less crumbly, the bridges that will get us from where we have been to where we want to be… or we just go back and forth and back and forth and both are brilliantly significant and well loved. Open your heart to remember the good – and craft the better from what might not have been so empowering before.

It isn’t too late to recognize the glory of the ordinary.

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Art Journaling Plus Writing Follow Up = Insights Galore

July 29, 2018 by jjscreativelifemidwife Leave a Comment

Sometimes art journaling and art making lead to surprising word combinations I enjoy taking more deeply with journaling of the more conventional kind: free flow writing.

Look what happened here:

The phrase “compassionate punishment” has continued to sit with me. If we were sentient beings in the same room, compassionate punishment would be sitting in a fashionable knock-off of a mid-century modern arm chair and I would be here, in my writing corner recliner wondering how long it will take me to feel better this morning after a difficult night.

When I feel like this, I hear voices of the past, like these:

Blond woman at Moms Group at church or was it, perhaps Bible Study, “Sometimes you just have to get on with it,” when I spoke about depression and loneliness.

I translated that into “Don’t talk about your feelings here at church. People won’t like you. Stay away.” My compassionate self-punishment was to not engage vulnerably with that particular woman again. I found others people to interact with and chose to stay away from that with her even though I would be happy to see her again.

Speaking of staying away, I… lost whatever image I meant to portray here.

I lean back in my recliner and decide which portion of this brief writing to leave unspoken.

“Earth is forgiveness school” Anne Lamott’s words and memory continues to haunt me.

I typed those words and a sweet bird sits on the brand of the tree that lives in my yard. Hop up, hop down.

“Earth is forgiveness school.” The bird, a vision of grace, reminded me of the love surrounding me, always.

Most recently, someone who was once my friend said to me not once, not twice, “Are you happy now, Julie?” in another moment of time that is scorched into my head. It literally took me about an hour to figure out what she was talking about, but I knew immediately the intent was for me to feel ashamed.

This morning I spoke with a friend who described me as grouchy. “I am allowed to feel what I feel,” I told him. “plus I wouldn’t call authentic feelings grouchy.”

Thankfully investing an hour or so in constructive conversation was exactly the medicine I needed to feel better. I can see the sentient-being-compassionate-punishment armchair has fallen asleep for now.

All’s well.

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